February 13, 2011

Is Dating Dead?

I am sure many of you have hear or read Elder Oaks Talk "Dating Verses Hanging Out", these are four reasons he gives for the changes in dating...

  1. Dating requires commitment, Hanging out requires little to no commitment and we live in a society that is afraid of commitment.
  2. The  women’s movement has contributed to discourage dating. As women’s options have increased and therefore traditional women's and men's roles have changes.
  3. Hanging out is glamorized on TV programs about singles.
  4. "The meaning and significance of a “date” has changed in such a way as to price dating out of the market". Many believe that in order for it to be considered a date it has to be expensive and a huge ordeal.
This isn't just the cases in the LDS church, it is a society as a whole.

However there are many rewards to dating...
  • The ultimate is finding your eternal companion or preparing for the future
  • Practice social skills
  • Learn respect for the opposite sex
  • Have a fan and enjoy time with others
  • Meet new people
  • Participate in fun activities
  • Gain self-confidence in who you are
So lets create a new trend and enjoy more dating!

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